I stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago - just know I enjoy it. My first exposure was during wrestling grading ball shots and later progressed to more intense bdsm endurance sessions. Whatever, love the feel of a good hard punch in the nuts - followed by more.....
Had a tuff buddy in Florida-Jeff! He would love it when I landed direct punches to his balls AND when I kneed him hard! All part of our matches! At first I was worried I was hurting him but when I heard and saw his pleasure WELL I cranked it out on him! Even his BF and I wrestled but regular matches there no ball shots-some grabbing yes but no knees!
Personally I love the idea of putting my cock and balls and pubic hair (although I trim it tight a lot of the time) in bounds in a man to man fight, as well as whatever hole is available between my legs…and I love it for two reasons…one I find pain and abuse a primary arousal condition and there are few better places to absorb pain than between your legs, and two, if my cock and balls are in bounds, for you to abuse, then your cock and balls are in bounds for me to abuse…I guess I should mention that besides taking pain, I also like to dish it out…
To be in a fight in speedos, or thongs, or nude where your hands free to use and you are not limited by boxing gloves, and then to find yourself in a position where your opponent’s balls and cock are right there in front of you and all you have to do is reach out and grab between his legs or slap between his legs onto that shiny speedo or naked cock, or reach inside his speedos and grab a handful of hair or cock and pull or grab his balls and squeeze and feel and hear his pain is a total sexual turn on…the only thing that matches that is when it is my cock and balls, pubic hair being ripped out, or hole that is being abused by an experienced fighter, that is a total turn on...CBT and TT are to me at least, a few of the ultimate experiences, and pleasures of being into private fighting and being a private fighter…
I agree totally. Love the mutual, back and forth abuse while fighting or wrestling. Most can't deal with that kind of consensual pain in that area but when you do find an opponent who likes it...it is great fun.
Howdy MEN! Had my Cup-Guard cracked almost shat when I was a Rookie LawMan in the early 80's and once with a law buddy when he was mess'in around with chuck'ers Nunchucks and almost lost me right Lug-Nut! THEM there times SOMEHOW?? got me into this in a wad blast'in, BUST A NUT way!
Fireplugdad - I am the same as you. Though my experience of what I call 'impact pain' (being hit, beaten, punched etc is very little, I know I don't enjoy it anywhere near as much as I do 'pressure pain'. The feeling of having someone using their own body, their weight, their strength, their power to press, squeeze and crush me gets me super hot. I guess that's why I enjoy wrestling so much.
Very true my friend . Direct inpact from another man is profound. It is direct and honest . You will know it is from your partner . Basic masculine trait to fight. Enjoy every second .
I'm with you musclebear. I find the joy of wrestling as a top is the pressure that causes pain so if I'm giving CBT its increasing the pressure, squeezing and twisting. Likewise if I'm putting on an armbar I like to slowly build up the pressure.
I'm with you musclebear. I find the joy of wrestling as a top is the pressure that causes pain so if I'm giving CBT its increasing the pressure, squeezing and twisting. Likewise if I'm putting on an armbar I like to slowly build up the pressure.
Yep, I don't always get turned on by a lot of things other guys like. But knowing a guy wants to hurt my balls gets me hard in seconds. Always ready to submit to abuse here. I don't like to be hit as much as squeezed. And being restrained and totally vulnerable makes me drool like crazy. I think the original titillation came when hearing guys at school acting and talking tough, and talking about things like getting you by the balls. When I was 12 I started playing with the boy next door. We started by grabbing each other's balls to make the other guy do something nasty or humiliating. For me the greatest aphrodisiac is a hand going for my nuts. Guys if you like to wreck a guy's manhood, bring it on.
First off, thanks DonPhoenix for setting up this interest group. It feels good to chat about an obsession, especially an unhealthy addicting one.
I was tested when 20yo at the request of my girlfriend at the time because she knew what I was into (it's hard to hide a sexual addiction like this from your partner). I found out then that I would no longer be able to naturally procreate due to a very low sperm count. I was offered then to try to cryopreserve what sperm I did have left. I accepted but was not guaranteed being able to have kids even with the frozen sperm. As far as other complications due to sterility I was told I have a higher risk of developing prostate cancer.
There was never any one moment that I could say lead to my sterility, in fact it could have been my first match. When 18 I had a match that got out of hand and was probably the cause of it though.
Just a word of warning the testicles might seem resilient but there is a reason why they hurt so much, it's a warning that abuse is bad for them. I know full forced trauma has a much higher likelihood of causing long term problems but so can repeated minor trauma. So just be careful and be ready to except what might happen in the long run.
To be very honest even if I could go back and be challenged again to the match that caused my sterility I don't think I would turn it down. Not because I want to be sterile, but because manhood abuse is more of a need than a want.
It is known that a very hard blow to the testicles can result in a man becoming sterile. Some people hold the view that gay men do not want to procreate so that sterility is not a problem for them. I do NOT concur with that view. There are possibly other medical implications connected to sterility.
I got into cock and ball busting when I was only 15yo. Unlike many other guys where they got a subtle introduction to it I got a serious trial by fire. My best friends brother was heavily into it, but I was only aware he was just into rough wrestling and used to mock him because he always talked about how pro wrestling had too many rules and was fake. My masochistic side of me wanted to see what he could do to me in this so called rougher version of competitive pro, especially with how much larger he was.
Well, he finally got fed up with my prodding and took me in the backyard and long story short went to town on me. The first time he grabbed my crotch I screamed bloody murder, but he just squeezed tighter and introduced me to the receiving end of squeezing, kneeing, grinding, dropping, etc. I was in tears by the end of the match.
You'd think that with a harsh experience like that I would get turned off by it, but It was the exact opposite that happened. For me it's not really the physical pain that gets me off though, it's the physical uncertainty. The idea of how fragile my manhood is and that I am putting on the line what I hold precious the most. I am not a masochist that get's off on pain, I get off on mental anguish.
I have since had experienced and done a lot of crazy shit in matches which involve some extreme cock and ball abuse but as much as I want to tone it down it always seems to escalate. I am sterile now and wondered how many others with this addiction also are sterile.
My intro to c&B torture was when i arranged a wrestling match with a guy called Andy. We arranged to meet at Rochdale ring. The arrangements were that the first to arrive would strip off nude and await their opponent in the ring. That there would be no "chatting" no acknowledgement. I entered the room to find Andy nude in the corner facing the door. Our eyes locked and a look of contempt crossed his face. I stripped and made apoint of showing him my butt, bending over stretching as i removed my clothing. I stroked my cock and cupped my balls, an noticed that he was now in a semi erect state.
When i was nude i entered the ring, we are both big guys with big bellies and we met mid ring, our bellies touched and our coks now erect also touched and fenced a little, we locked up and the bout started. I forced Andy into the ring corner and proceeded to forearm his chest a punch his ample gut, we struggled and he reached down grabbing my balls and squeezing. I was in agony and tried to reciprocate but he closed his legs and shifted position so I couldnt grab him.He forced me back into the ring centre, released my balls and then body checked me, I hit the mat, hard, i was winded and he stepped arounfd me dropping across my face with his massive arse facing my feet, he again took hold of my cock nd balls and continued the torture. He verblled me throughout and e3ventually i was forced to agree to suck his cock before he released me.
He turned round and forced his thobbing cock intoi my mouth at the same time raching behind and again grabbing my balls, He didnt apply too much pressure as i mouthed and sucked his knob till he cummed in my mouth. He then held my nose till i swallowed.
Have you ever wondered why people come to find a painful experience like ball-torture sexually arousing?
Men often hold their balls when they have a hard-on as that pulls the skin on the penis slightly tighter stimulating the nerve endings and making the feeling in the penis more intense. Some use a strap around the balls which has the same effect.
(Interestingly, Americans seem to use a "milking" grip on the balls whereas the British use a "ball and claw" grip.)
Aware of the ball-hold increasing the excitement of the nerves as they reach a sexual climax men will often increase the grip on their balls slightly with every subsequent occasion in order to reach the climax sooner and more easily.
What most people do not understand is that the feelings that one experiences at the moment of ejaculation become imprinted in the mind or, if they are already imprinted in the mind, they become reinforced in order to help you reach a sexual climax more easily the next time given the same feelings being experienced on the next occasion. In other words, our bodies anticipate that we will be monogamous. This is why old couples who still enjoy sex say that sex simply gets better and better.
If you hold your balls to increase arousal in the penis then holding your balls will help you to reach a climax more easily next time. However, men often tighten the grip on their balls as they near the point of ejaculation meaning to increase the excitement of the nerve endings in the penis to hasten the climax, but besides increasing the excitement of the nerve endings the pressure on the balls begins to become uncomfortable and later painful and these feelings will also become imprinted in the mind when ejaculation occurs.
Over succeeding weeks the grip on he balls will become firmer and stronger and each increase in pressure will be imprinted in the mind and will subsequently help you to reach a sexual climax until the pressure on the balls is actually quite painful, but now the pain is also imprinted in the mind and will thus help you to reach a climax more easily the next time.
It is very easy, in this way, to make any man sexually excited by squeezing his balls, but before doing this to him you should be responsible and explain to him what you are able to do, and get his approval and permission before you actually carry out this procedure.
This is also the mechanism whereby some men become sexually aroused by smelly feet or stale body odour.
mikeupsteps (1 )
19/11/2016 08:23The thought of getting busted gets me hard every time...getting busted gets me harder still! doing the other guy too. The cause? who cares?!
ruffguystuff (1)
26/5/2013 20:27I stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago - just know I enjoy it. My first exposure was during wrestling grading ball shots and later progressed to more intense bdsm endurance sessions. Whatever, love the feel of a good hard punch in the nuts - followed by more.....
friar155 (12)
10/4/2015 18:03(em resposta à...)
yes I do as well the sickening pain we all crave
RED DADDY (3)
10/4/2015 20:41(em resposta à...)
I personally don't like the pain BUT I do get off on squeezing kicking applying the painto others!
imajem (2)
14/9/2016 04:14(em resposta à...)
Invite me to Atlanta or come to my place. You can work on me for as long as you want.
mail4me76 (0)
19/7/2014 00:12(em resposta à...)
Yeah some freedom cock and ball torture is so exiting! I'm boxing ever since but I'd like to fight nude including punches to the balls. Would you?
socal74 (28)
12/5/2014 20:18(em resposta à...)
hot, i'd take ya
RED DADDY (3)
07/4/2015 00:47(em resposta à...)
Had a tuff buddy in Florida-Jeff! He would love it when I landed direct punches to his balls AND when I kneed him hard! All part of our matches! At first I was worried I was hurting him but when I heard and saw his pleasure WELL I cranked it out on him! Even his BF and I wrestled but regular matches there no ball shots-some grabbing yes but no knees!
Rocket (3 )
17/11/2016 19:52(em resposta à...)
Lucky Jeff.
bifighter (0)
15/3/2012 00:20Personally I love the idea of putting my cock and balls and pubic hair (although I trim it tight a lot of the time) in bounds in a man to man fight, as well as whatever hole is available between my legs…and I love it for two reasons…one I find pain and abuse a primary arousal condition and there are few better places to absorb pain than between your legs, and two, if my cock and balls are in bounds, for you to abuse, then your cock and balls are in bounds for me to abuse…I guess I should mention that besides taking pain, I also like to dish it out…
To be in a fight in speedos, or thongs, or nude where your hands free to use and you are not limited by boxing gloves, and then to find yourself in a position where your opponent’s balls and cock are right there in front of you and all you have to do is reach out and grab between his legs or slap between his legs onto that shiny speedo or naked cock, or reach inside his speedos and grab a handful of hair or cock and pull or grab his balls and squeeze and feel and hear his pain is a total sexual turn on…the only thing that matches that is when it is my cock and balls, pubic hair being ripped out, or hole that is being abused by an experienced fighter, that is a total turn on...CBT and TT are to me at least, a few of the ultimate experiences, and pleasures of being into private fighting and being a private fighter…
Bahuney (0)
17/9/2014 22:26(em resposta à...)
Well reading that really turned me on
stxrasler (5)
20/4/2013 14:46(em resposta à...)
I agree totally. Love the mutual, back and forth abuse while fighting or wrestling. Most can't deal with that kind of consensual pain in that area but when you do find an opponent who likes it...it is great fun.
Bahuney (0)
17/9/2014 22:03(em resposta à...)
I'm with you on this it's actually very intimate and a massive turn on for me
SgtHossBoss (0)
19/1/2012 15:06Howdy MEN! Had my Cup-Guard cracked almost shat when I was a Rookie LawMan in the early 80's and once with a law buddy when he was mess'in around with chuck'ers Nunchucks and almost lost me right Lug-Nut! THEM there times SOMEHOW?? got me into this in a wad blast'in, BUST A NUT way!
musclebear2b (4)
09/7/2011 02:56Fireplugdad - I am the same as you. Though my experience of what I call 'impact pain' (being hit, beaten, punched etc is very little, I know I don't enjoy it anywhere near as much as I do 'pressure pain'. The feeling of having someone using their own body, their weight, their strength, their power to press, squeeze and crush me gets me super hot. I guess that's why I enjoy wrestling so much.
Rocket (3 )
17/11/2016 19:51(em resposta à...)
Very true my friend . Direct inpact from another man is profound. It is direct and honest . You will know it is from your partner . Basic masculine trait to fight. Enjoy every second .
NZ Heel (7)
17/11/2013 07:39(em resposta à...)
I'm with you musclebear. I find the joy of wrestling as a top is the pressure that causes pain so if I'm giving CBT its increasing the pressure, squeezing and twisting. Likewise if I'm putting on an armbar I like to slowly build up the pressure.
NZ Heel (7)
17/11/2013 07:03(em resposta à...)
I'm with you musclebear. I find the joy of wrestling as a top is the pressure that causes pain so if I'm giving CBT its increasing the pressure, squeezing and twisting. Likewise if I'm putting on an armbar I like to slowly build up the pressure.
fireplugdad (1)
24/12/2010 03:11Yep, I don't always get turned on by a lot of things other guys like. But knowing a guy wants to hurt my balls gets me hard in seconds. Always ready to submit to abuse here. I don't like to be hit as much as squeezed. And being restrained and totally vulnerable makes me drool like crazy. I think the original titillation came when hearing guys at school acting and talking tough, and talking about things like getting you by the balls. When I was 12 I started playing with the boy next door. We started by grabbing each other's balls to make the other guy do something nasty or humiliating. For me the greatest aphrodisiac is a hand going for my nuts. Guys if you like to wreck a guy's manhood, bring it on.
socal74 (28)
12/5/2014 20:20(em resposta à...)
WOOF! i'd bust ya GOOD big guy
toughfighter mike (28 )
18/12/2010 13:22First off, thanks DonPhoenix for setting up this interest group. It feels good to chat about an obsession, especially an unhealthy addicting one.
I was tested when 20yo at the request of my girlfriend at the time because she knew what I was into (it's hard to hide a sexual addiction like this from your partner). I found out then that I would no longer be able to naturally procreate due to a very low sperm count. I was offered then to try to cryopreserve what sperm I did have left. I accepted but was not guaranteed being able to have kids even with the frozen sperm. As far as other complications due to sterility I was told I have a higher risk of developing prostate cancer.
There was never any one moment that I could say lead to my sterility, in fact it could have been my first match. When 18 I had a match that got out of hand and was probably the cause of it though.
Just a word of warning the testicles might seem resilient but there is a reason why they hurt so much, it's a warning that abuse is bad for them. I know full forced trauma has a much higher likelihood of causing long term problems but so can repeated minor trauma. So just be careful and be ready to except what might happen in the long run.
To be very honest even if I could go back and be challenged again to the match that caused my sterility I don't think I would turn it down. Not because I want to be sterile, but because manhood abuse is more of a need than a want.
donphoenix (13)
18/12/2010 12:29Toughfighter Mike - Ball torture and sterility
It is known that a very hard blow to the testicles can result in a man becoming sterile. Some people hold the view that gay men do not want to procreate so that sterility is not a problem for them. I do NOT concur with that view. There are possibly other medical implications connected to sterility.
toughfighter mike (28 )
17/12/2010 19:35I got into cock and ball busting when I was only 15yo. Unlike many other guys where they got a subtle introduction to it I got a serious trial by fire. My best friends brother was heavily into it, but I was only aware he was just into rough wrestling and used to mock him because he always talked about how pro wrestling had too many rules and was fake. My masochistic side of me wanted to see what he could do to me in this so called rougher version of competitive pro, especially with how much larger he was.
Well, he finally got fed up with my prodding and took me in the backyard and long story short went to town on me. The first time he grabbed my crotch I screamed bloody murder, but he just squeezed tighter and introduced me to the receiving end of squeezing, kneeing, grinding, dropping, etc. I was in tears by the end of the match.
You'd think that with a harsh experience like that I would get turned off by it, but It was the exact opposite that happened. For me it's not really the physical pain that gets me off though, it's the physical uncertainty. The idea of how fragile my manhood is and that I am putting on the line what I hold precious the most. I am not a masochist that get's off on pain, I get off on mental anguish.
I have since had experienced and done a lot of crazy shit in matches which involve some extreme cock and ball abuse but as much as I want to tone it down it always seems to escalate. I am sterile now and wondered how many others with this addiction also are sterile.
The Troll (0)
06/12/2010 12:30My intro to c&B torture was when i arranged a wrestling match with a guy called Andy. We arranged to meet at Rochdale ring. The arrangements were that the first to arrive would strip off nude and await their opponent in the ring. That there would be no "chatting" no acknowledgement. I entered the room to find Andy nude in the corner facing the door. Our eyes locked and a look of contempt crossed his face. I stripped and made apoint of showing him my butt, bending over stretching as i removed my clothing. I stroked my cock and cupped my balls, an noticed that he was now in a semi erect state.
When i was nude i entered the ring, we are both big guys with big bellies and we met mid ring, our bellies touched and our coks now erect also touched and fenced a little, we locked up and the bout started. I forced Andy into the ring corner and proceeded to forearm his chest a punch his ample gut, we struggled and he reached down grabbing my balls and squeezing. I was in agony and tried to reciprocate but he closed his legs and shifted position so I couldnt grab him.He forced me back into the ring centre, released my balls and then body checked me, I hit the mat, hard, i was winded and he stepped arounfd me dropping across my face with his massive arse facing my feet, he again took hold of my cock nd balls and continued the torture. He verblled me throughout and e3ventually i was forced to agree to suck his cock before he released me.
He turned round and forced his thobbing cock intoi my mouth at the same time raching behind and again grabbing my balls, He didnt apply too much pressure as i mouthed and sucked his knob till he cummed in my mouth. He then held my nose till i swallowed.
True experience
donphoenix (13)
03/12/2010 02:15Have you ever wondered why people come to find a painful experience like ball-torture sexually arousing?
Men often hold their balls when they have a hard-on as that pulls the skin on the penis slightly tighter stimulating the nerve endings and making the feeling in the penis more intense. Some use a strap around the balls which has the same effect.
(Interestingly, Americans seem to use a "milking" grip on the balls whereas the British use a "ball and claw" grip.)
Aware of the ball-hold increasing the excitement of the nerves as they reach a sexual climax men will often increase the grip on their balls slightly with every subsequent occasion in order to reach the climax sooner and more easily.
What most people do not understand is that the feelings that one experiences at the moment of ejaculation become imprinted in the mind or, if they are already imprinted in the mind, they become reinforced in order to help you reach a sexual climax more easily the next time given the same feelings being experienced on the next occasion. In other words, our bodies anticipate that we will be monogamous. This is why old couples who still enjoy sex say that sex simply gets better and better.
If you hold your balls to increase arousal in the penis then holding your balls will help you to reach a climax more easily next time. However, men often tighten the grip on their balls as they near the point of ejaculation meaning to increase the excitement of the nerve endings in the penis to hasten the climax, but besides increasing the excitement of the nerve endings the pressure on the balls begins to become uncomfortable and later painful and these feelings will also become imprinted in the mind when ejaculation occurs.
Over succeeding weeks the grip on he balls will become firmer and stronger and each increase in pressure will be imprinted in the mind and will subsequently help you to reach a sexual climax until the pressure on the balls is actually quite painful, but now the pain is also imprinted in the mind and will thus help you to reach a climax more easily the next time.
It is very easy, in this way, to make any man sexually excited by squeezing his balls, but before doing this to him you should be responsible and explain to him what you are able to do, and get his approval and permission before you actually carry out this procedure.
This is also the mechanism whereby some men become sexually aroused by smelly feet or stale body odour.